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Rules of negotiators
Probably, it's no secret that in life, to achieve your goals, we often have to negotiate with other people. And no matter where we want to achieve these goals, in the personal area or in the field of business. We have to participate in the negotiations every day. Often our interests intersect with the interests of other people. For example, I want to buy a thing at a price cheaper than the seller requests. The one who sells this thing, on the contrary, is interested in selling it more expensive. Here is the intersection of interest. My task, as a negotiators, convince opponent to make a deal on the conditions more profitable to me. Of course, it would be possible to wave a smith & wesson revolver in the face of this man and he would be very happy to make a deal on my conditions. But, I understand perfectly that many times to spend such "successful" negotiations will not give me very serious uncle. They will be sent to the place not so distant and there, the will - not will, they still have to negotiate in a peaceful way. The rules described below will allow you to avoid many mistakes with participation in negotiation processes and to learn almost without loss to bypass underwater stones found on the way to the successful conclusion of the transaction.
Negotiations are a dialogue of equal partners, and not imposing its own position. Member participants should be prepared to make compromises, perceive and respect someone else's point of view, argued to prove, and not to urge their opinion. In other words, you need to follow metache negotiations and the rules of the business protocol. Knowledge and compliance with the statutory standards of business meetings help to establish a constructive discussion, focus on solving professional problems, minimize emotional tension.
Negotiations, in contrast to the business meeting, are completed by signing a contract or at least a protocol on intent. That is why it is necessary to prepare for negotiations, thinking about not only their meaningful side, but also organizational support. At the same time, if the choice of arguments depends on your knowledge and abilities, then the organizational provision of the meeting is predetermined by the rules for the etiquette of business negotiations. These rules you just need to know.
Rule 1. Preliminary consultation
To prescribe negotiations makes sense only if both parties are interested in cooperation. Therefore, first of all, you need to find out the goals of partners and determine the subject of discussion. Preliminary consultations will help find the area of \u200b\u200bintersection of interest. When you make sure that partners are in principle to work with you, proceed to the preparation of negotiations. You can instruct this task with a special protocol group (in large companies there are even permanent protocol departments).
Rule 2. Meeting time
Assigning time, proceed from the alleged duration of the negotiations. It is usually convenient to choose the morning - 10 or 11 hours. If the event began in the first half of the day, it should be completed no later than 17-18 hours. Psychologists and physiologists recommend negotiating on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday, since these days there are peak of mental and physiological activity of man.
Rule 3. Meeting Place
Serious business people spend negotiations in the office atmosphere. Saunas and restaurants are not the best places to make decisions. The restaurant serves a successful completion of negotiations or appoint a business meeting to maintain partnerships and clarify mutual interests - but no more.
Negotiations can take place in your office and partners - both options have pros and cons. Communication on its territory is easier and calmer - just like in sports playing your field. However, in this case, you cannot avoid organizational troubles. On the other hand, on someone else's field higher psychological stress. If the companies have been cooperating and regularly conducting negotiations, the order can be observed: today - we are to you, and tomorrow you are to us. It also happens that the event is better to appoint in neutral territory. This is useful, in particular, when:
& gt;Etiquette business meetings and negotiations. How to prepare a meeting room
First of all, you need to provide cleanliness and order. Written accessories should be on the tables. You can be applied by your branded symbolism, but it is optional. By tradition, the room is decorated with flowers. If the flowers are decided to put on the table, select Low or Lying Bouquets: They will not close the participants from each other. High bouquets on the meeting table should not be, but they can be positioned in other places. On the table you need to put bottles with mineral water without gas (they are not opened in advance) and flawlessly clean glasses. Do not forget to trace the order in public areas (corridors, halls, lobby, toilets) throughout the office. You should also choose a place for smoking and report to guests, how to go there.
The office for negotiations can be removed in many business centers. Local specialists will take the preparation of the premises, negotiation service and their technical support.
Rule 4. The composition of the delegation
The number of negotiation participants on each side and their official level should be approximately the same. The head of the delegation is an employee who makes a final decision on the subject of negotiations and relative to the compliance with the approved procedure. Usually the delegation is headed by the head of the company, but there are exceptions. For example, if some specialist is better than the technique of negotiations or if the director has recently been appointed and has not yet sorted out in a situation, then another person can lead the delegation. In this case, all the authority at the time of negotiations and all responsibility for making decisions lay on the chapter of the delegation, and the Director-General needs to be remembered. Representatives of the company should unquestionably obey the decisions of the head of the delegation. A big mistake - during the negotiations to start a dispute between themselves or question the decision of the head.
Rule 5. Documents and handouts
Projects of all solutions, contracts, agreements should be prepared in advance. Note that the name of such documents is necessary to include the word "project". Think out in advance what information materials can be useful during negotiations. Important information at the right time should be at hand. It is impossible to make participants wait until the secretary finds the necessary documents or will call a person with the required information. Printed materials should be prepared in sufficient quantities and in the same for all participants in the configuration. The excuses like "not a very high-quality copy remained for you" offensive.
In addition, it makes sense in advance to collect information about the participants in the negotiations from partners, first of all - about the General Director. When you know about the partner, all or almost everything, influence the result of the meeting it becomes easier. Any information can be useful - and the culinary preferences of the Director-General, and what book it recently read.
Make sure that all members of your delegation have a sufficient number of business cards.
Rule 6. Souvenirs for partners
If you wish, you can prepare small gifts for negotiation participants. Souvenirs should not be cumbersome or expensive. It is useful to provide symbolism of the company. The Director-General is intended different from other gifts, usually more valuable. A good tone is to prevent partners about the prepared souvenirs (through protocol groups or departments) so that they do not find themselves in an awkward position due to the impossibility of managing response politeness.
Rule 7. Metal negotiations and dress code
Men on negotiations should be put on dark costumes and bright shirts. The tie should not be a motley and multicolor. It is better to stop your choice on a dark tie into a small bright polka dot or in a diagonal light strip. Shoes are classic black shoes with laces (Oxfords); From decorative elements, only seam separating the thoughts of the shoes will be allowed. Lacked shoes or footwear from skin exotic animals (crocodiles, snakes, ostrichs) is unacceptable.
The best clothing for women participating in the negotiations will be a dark business suit (jacket with a skirt or dress). In addition to the suit, it is better to choose a bright shirtless blouse, transparent bodily color tights, black shoes on a low heel (3-5 cm) with a minimum decor. The tie like a male, as if fashionable, he was, a woman to wear on such events is impossible - such an unwritten rule of the business world. Removable few decorations, strict and nonsense. Earrings are excluded like gypsy and any bracelets.
The negotiations should arrive on time. Late is a violation of the ethics of negotiation; It may be regarded as disrespect for the other side or even as an insult. If your delegation was lingering for a short reason for unforeseen reasons, you must apologize. If you are late for more than 15 minutes, the CEO of the host has the full right to reassign negotiations to assistants or refuse to meet this day.
14 Errors B.ethics business negotiations that Russian businessmen admit
- The perception of the interlocutor as an enemy.
- Sustaintly, secrecy, hostility (which is one desire to hide the ethical code of the company, which is proud of all over the world).
- "Messianic" ambitions are the idea that Russia (or a specific city, region) is better than all, and in other countries (cities, regions) do everything wrong.
- Collectivist thinking (due to severe historical heritage). It is manifested in unpretentiousness to take responsibility: the boss refers to the deputy, the deputy - to the deputy deputy, etc.
- Next to authoritarian behavior, meaning the absolute opacity of information for the collective. This approach also has deep historical roots (barin and serfdom).
- Hard negotiation style, reluctance to make concessions.
- Loud speech, "no" without an alternative.
- The desire to get away from the discussion of complex issues. The conversation is brought into another river - by changing the topic so that it is not to return to the "uncomfortable" problem, offering additional tea drinking or watching anything that does not relate to the issue under discussion, etc.
- Manipulation. It happens, for example, that the delegation is intentionally late for negotiations to show who is the main one here (since the bosses always falls out). If the delegation of the partner is late for it, it indicates this with all the rigor.
- Inability and unwillingness to navigate in the peculiarities of the national and regional psychology of partners.
- Inability to issue a negotiation documentation.
- Inadequate appearance. Often too elegant, coupling clothes.
- Bad manners. Once, for example, negotiations led Dama - Director of the personnel department. She was dressed in a green business suit and at the same time shod in white sandals. Pointing a finger to where visitors were supposed to be located, she sentenced: "I ask you, gentlemen!"
- Failure to comply with promises, data during negotiations.
Meeting with guests. If your company is a receiving party, then all members of your delegation should be held at the time of the appointed time to gather in the negotiation room. Guests meet an employee who is not involved in the event. He escorts them to the negotiation. The first head of the host delegation is also presented, then the head of the guest delegation. After that, the head of the home delegation invites everyone to take their places.
Seating negotiators. The head of the owners delegation is first ranked. The rest are searched in accordance with the plates of the plates. One of the most common options for the seating is such. The delegations are placed opposite each other, occupying every (long) side of the table. At the same time, the general director are located in the center opposite each other. On the right hand from the head of the delegation sits down by the second most important employee, according to the left - the third, next to the right - the fourth, next to the left - the fifth, etc. Experts and translators participating in the meeting, but not part of the negotiators, are located on the left and slightly Behind the head of the delegation. I note that the disabilities prescribed by the owners and sit on someone else's place is considered a bad tone. This could only afford George Bush Jr. when he was president of the United States. At one of the G8 summits, he is unceremoniously located next to the German Chancellor Angela Merkel, taking the place of British premiere of Gordon Brown. The efforts of the organizers who tried to pay the attention of Bush to the cu-cutting card, did not lead to anything. He pretended to do not understand what they want from him, and this was very entertaining the world community.
Exchange business cards. After everyone took places, the head of the host presents the members of his delegation (regardless of whether the participants in negotiations are familiar with each other or not). Then the head of the guest delegation is his team. If there are less than ten people at the negotiations, participants exchange business cards. Each transmits its business card to a partner sitting on the contrary. The resulting card can be removed into the chest pocket of the jacket or put in front of it to be able to clarify the name of the partner if it happens to forget. It is especially convenient when non-vertical signs are used for seating in the negotiations, and laying covenacles. If there are many negotiators, then the exchange of business cards at the table is inappropriate. In this case, each participant should have a complete list of members of the partner's delegation (with surnames, full names and patronymic, posts). And the ability to exchange business cards from members of delegations will be later, during a break or at the end of the meeting.
Start of negotiations. Starts negotiation CEO of the host. He monitors that during the event there was no longer pauses. The coming silence can be perceived by guests as a hint of the end of the meeting. Do not begin the topic of negotiations from the room in the quarry. First you need to exchange multiple phrases for an abstract topic: about the weather, about mutually beneficial cooperation in the past. Themes that are able to cause disagreements (religion, politics, sports addictions, national characteristics) should be excluded from the preliminary conversation. After that, the head of the home delegation proposes to go to the topic of negotiations. The Director-General may transfer the Word for the speech to other members of his delegation, as well as experts and advisers. Partner's speech is not accepted.
Breaks during the meeting. Mobile phones at the time of negotiation should be disabled. All breaks (for example, for lunch) must be scheduled in advance. To the gathered not disturbed, you can hang a warning to the door "Do not enter! Go talks. " The secretary has the right to go on only at the request of the head of the home delegation. If there was still an extraneous person in the premises, the head of the host delegation should demand from him to immediately remove.
Recording conversation. In business practice, it is customary to record negotiations. This is done in different ways: some make up the protocols from the hand, the others are typing them on the computer, the third records are recorded on the voice recorder. But to start recording, you need to notify both sides and get their consent. Record negotiations can be both a technical officer and a member of the delegation.
Completion of negotiations. By the end of the meeting, you need to discharge the atmosphere. For this, you can, for example, offer participants to remove jackets. With this initiative, only the head of the host delegation can speak. Until the official, protocol, part of the event (and shooting) is not completed, it is not worth doing this proposal. The initiative of the end of the negotiations remains the leader of the guest delegation. As a rule, negotiations are completed by the adoption of a solution that is drawn up documented. From each side, the document signs an authorized person (or face), after which both partners are issued its copy of the document. Following the meeting, a report is drawn up, which can be sent for approval to the other party. The agreements achieved in the negotiations - both written and orals should be strictly observed, since the main principle of business etiquette is to keep this word.
Upon completion of the event, you can exchange souvenirs. The obtained gifts do not unfold and do not consider.
Negotiations do not always end in satisfactory for both parties. Sometimes the meeting participants make a decision to postpone the signing of the Agreement in order to better think about their conditions or the consequences of the transaction. In this case, you need to discuss with partners the date of the next round of negotiations. If it becomes clear that it will not be possible to come to consent now, no later, you should not put an ultimatum or go out, slamming the door. The head of the delegation of guests should simply declare that the difference in opinions is too large, thank for working together, say goodbye and go along with their subordinates.
Expert opinion
Nicholas Koro, Chief Curator of the Brand Management Center and Brand Technologies of the Relland Group of Companies, Member of the Board of Marketing Guild, Chairman of the Committee on International Affairs of Marketologists of Russia, Member of the Marketing Committee of the Russian Federation TPP, Moscow
Unfortunately, Russian businessmen usually recall the ethics of business negotiations only on units with foreign partners. However, in recent years, the etiquette of business negotiations has ceased to be exotic - at least in metropolis and the capital of the regions. Following the rules adopted in the business community now testifies to the status of an entrepreneur. Such, albeit somewhat distorted, the idea of \u200b\u200bthe purpose of the etiquette led positive changes. In addition, there are more managers of a new generation that receive modern education. They perceive the number of negotiations as an integral business component.
And yet the shocking examples are still enough. Most often, missing negotiators are associated with ignorance of the culture of countries where partners come from. Think about what it means to submit an orthodox induce a business card with your left hand, and even climbing it with two fingers - medium and index. Or when meeting (farewell), pat the Japanese on the shoulder to demonstrate his location. Or, for example, what does it mean to appear in negotiations with the Arabs in a decolted or excessive short dress of green. Many will not find anything reprehensible in such behavior, but all these are examples of the monstrous insult partners. The clinical case, in my opinion, is the habit of some directors to wear a tie to a short sleeve shirt (as if they are clerks or service from Fastfud's institutions). Such extremes can forgive you if you are heading the World List forbes. In other cases you need to play according to the rules.
Negotiation etiquette today is not so hard
Igor Berezin, President of the Marketing Guild, partner of Semperia M & S, Member of the Board of the Russian Association of Marketing, Advisor to President Romir Research Holding, Moscow
Metreating negotiations today is not so tough as the diplomatic protocol of the last century. This is not strict rules, but recommendations arising from the generalization and formalization of business practices. According to my observations, most Russian businessmen are familiar with the basic standards of business etiquette. But the nuances are known not to everyone. In the negotiations, much depends on the "senior by rank". If he knows and complies with the protocol - the rest of the participants look at him and do the same.
In second-hand business companies, young leaders are often not delivered in the subtleties of the protocol. The most common mistake with which I encountered is when guests are forced to wait in the negotiating more than 5-7 minutes (and sometimes - and 15-20), while the "main boss" appears to appear. Often, the owners behave like this when visitors are interested in receiving an order or contract.
In case of seating at the table, errors are rare, but still it happens that the receiving party does not leave the opportunity to sit together, on one side of the table. This creates practical inconveniences and moral discomfort.
Wested error in us - the absence of business cards or their uselessness. If the Director-General does not give his business card or its personal e-mail and mobile phone, partners can conclude (possibly erroneous), that the head does not intend to control the course of further cooperation. They will not "disturb him", trying to negotiate with managers (and take into account their interests).
Also, problems often arise at the beginning of negotiations - the entry is not always well thought out, the hits happen until the parties are defined who will start.
As you can see, the number of negotiations is not so simple - there is a lot of subtleties. However, they are all logical and appropriate, they are easy to remember; With experience, their observance will go into the habit. This will greatly facilitate participation in the negotiations and will be a competitive advantage.
The ability to negotiate and find a compromise solution even in the most difficult situation is a unique skill. Such skill is extremely important when doing business. How to negotiate? How to make this skill help achieve success? This will be discussed in this article.
Let's focus on this. Conditionally, you can share all negotiations for two types:
There is no accurate advice, how to negotiate. Each chooses its own method. In practice, you can most often meet a combination of a competitive and affiliate form of business conversation.
For competitive negotiations, a tense atmosphere is characteristic. The task of each of the parties is to obtain their own benefit, without taking into account the interests of the opposite side. In order to achieve a positive result in such a situation, you must follow the following recommendations:
To understand how to properly negotiate cooperation, you need to know about the main features of this process.
At the initial stage, collecting and providing the maximum full information. As a result, both parties can achieve profitable decisions. When conducting partnership negotiations, it is possible to initially be ready to make concessions.
To begin with, set which goals you want to achieve during these conversations. They must be commensurate and achievable. You must clearly understand what you want to get from your opponent. Before the meeting, it is worth examining the needs of the second party. On the basis of the information received, you can formulate your suggestions. They must be most realistic. If both parties are ready to go on some concessions, the result will achieve much easier. But if one of the negotiators starts a conversation in the form of competitive negotiations, then the development of a conflict situation is more likely. The main task of the negotiator in this case is to establish relations.
After each of the Parties is their opinion about the opponent, you can begin to put forward specific suggestions. If you decide to make concessions, you need not only to offer something, but also to receive returns. The exchange must be equal.
When the exchange of basic information is carried out, you can move directly to the essence of the case. It should be borne in mind that the more you ask during the negotiations, the more you get, the less prompted, the smaller you lose. When nominating your sentence, try to be as accurate as possible in the wording. Avoid approximate estimates. The opponent can interpret ambiguity against you.
Similarly, it is worth negotiating with the opposite side when the offer comes from them. You must have a clear idea of \u200b\u200bwhat they offer. Feel free to ask questions. They will help you understand whether the proposed version of your goals is true.
How to conduct business negotiations? If the meeting passes in an informal setting, try to use open poses and maintain visual contact with your interlocutor. Sit, putting his leg on the leg and arms crossed, it is not worth it.
Think out your speech before negotiations. Do not use words and expressions that can annoy your opponents. Also try to refrain from sarcastic comments, degrading the opposite side negotiating. If the conversation begins to go to another rush, try to return the attention of people present at the meeting. You can ask them to voice your position. In some cases, this technique helps to achieve a compromise.
Many novice entrepreneurs are interested in how to negotiate with the client correctly. In this case, the tactics of "active listening" helps well. It avoids unpleasant situations or a painful reaction from the opposite side. Tactics "Active Hearing" makes more perfect communicative skills. If you have to do often negotiate, it will be very useful.
How do you understand that you and your opponent come to the agreement? Follow the verbal signals supplied by the other side. It can be the words "perhaps" or "possible." In most cases, this is a sign of a quick conclusion of the agreement.
There are situations where a personal meeting is impossible for a number of reasons. Then the problem has to be solved in remote mode. How to negotiate on the phone to achieve the desired result? Large-scale transactions are usually not connected by phone. But to achieve a preliminary agreement in this way it is quite possible.
When conducting telephone conversations, you must adhere to the following recommendations:
Any entrepreneur needs to know the dominance of dialogue. A competent businessman should know how to negotiate with suppliers. Without the ability to find a common language with partners not to become a busy business. The basis of any contacts is personal communication. No telephone conversations and emails will not replace it. When negotiating, it is better to behave confidently and ease. It is not worth a glamor and overly courtesy with a business partner. Always remember, for what purpose a meeting was organized. A business conversation does not tolerate inexpensive: try to formulate your thoughts specifically and intelligibly. At the same time, listen carefully to the oncoming offers. The ability to conduct a conversation thus will demonstrate your experience and knowledge.
This is a special type of business conversation. How to negotiate with the customer, so that your cooperation has become mutually beneficial? Be sure to ask the needs of the client. If you lift the topic irrelevant for him, the customer will quickly lose interest in conversation. Specify the interlocutor counter questions. This will emphasize your involvement in the business process. It is also recommended to focus on your experience in one area or another. You can give examples of already executed orders.
For residents of large cities, terrorism became one of the main phobias. Often, terrorist acts are accompanied by the seizure of the hostages. It depends here much on how you behave in such a situation. How to negotiate with terrorists? The chief advice that specialists give - try to be in calm condition. Perform all the requirements of the invaders.
In the crisis situation, such a phenomenon is often observed as Stockholm syndrome. Under this term refers to the appearance of sympathy among victims in relation to terrorists. The general stress in the current situation makes people get closer. After all, terrorists are also the road their own life. Remember this, but continue to express readiness to submission. Do not try to bargain. After all, all the motives of criminals are unknown. Only employees of the special services know how to maintain operational negotiations. Examples of such situations show that only when performing the basic recommendations of psychologists, you can count on a successful solution permission.
The main ones are:
In this review, we looked at how to negotiate. The presented tips and recommendations will allow you to get the maximum result when conducting conversation in various situations.
Negotiations are the most important part of any business partnership. Further work with the client or supplier depends on the quality of the negotiations, and it is at this stage that the main conditions of cooperation are determined.
From a psychological point of view, each of us is a unique person. We have our own life position, views and preferences. The same applies to man as the counterparty in the transaction process. Director, Manager, Financier and Other Officials pose a specific firm that needs specific conditions. The private client, in turn, is interested in a certain product, in a certain amount. People with whom you will negotiate needs specifics - it is important. But along with it there are standard negotiation techniques. They can be viewed as a pattern, in a good value of this word. These rules are formed on the basis of factors such as business ethics and psychoanalysis, so their effectiveness is unlikely to question.
So, the rules of successful negotiations include the following items:
In fairness, it is worth noting that on this item is all purely individually. Often, people, promoting their product or service, create such an appearance that their interlocutor will not understand the first time with whom he generally talks. This makes it possible to play the first violin precisely in terms of business communication, while the other party pays time to studying you as a person. But here on thin. It is important not to overdo it, because Excessive expressiveness in style can give both the return result - a person will initially not see in you a seriously configured partner.
IMPORTANT! The outcome of the negotiations - does not mean the decision. The verdict on cooperation should be taken, only by thinking in a relaxed atmosphere, discussed with their colleagues, everything that you communicated in the negotiation process. Especially if the interlocutor offered you the options for cooperation, which you have not thought before. You need to carefully analyze this proposal, understand whether you are satisfied with the voiced conditions. It is possible to look for pitfalls. In order to be easier to figure out, lead entries during the negotiations. If you agree to the transaction during the conversation itself, you can become a victim of a person with strong charisma, at the expense of which you will be confused.
The above recommendations treated negotiations in general. Now let's look at a few theses as to which line to adhere to when communicating with a person you want to sell anything. It does not matter - this is a wholesalerier or retail client. For us, he is first of all - the buyer.
IMPORTANT! All the benefits you must understand, first of all, ourselves. Only then can you justify them and convey to the buyer.
Among the benefits can be:
Mass options, the main thing is that they are economically appropriate for you. If the buyer asks an unreal discount, do not be afraid to refuse him. At the same time, justify your refusal, tell me that such conditions for you are simply unprofitable. And offer an alternative.
Tip: Examples of successful negotiations demonstrate the relevance of comparisons when visualing the price. "This book is worth how 10 cups of coffee", "The month's month payment for the car is equal to three dinners in the restaurant", etc.
The main thing is not to start the conversation from the cost. First, see the buyer with a commodity (or a common range), list its advantages, and then politely, but confidently voice the price. Confidence is an important point. If the client sees that you hesitate, he will definitely start bargaining. Try the figure as confidently as your name. When bargaining, if it still takes place, use what is said at the beginning of this item. But do not hurry to do a discount itself if the client says about whether it is expensive. " Perhaps he is just waiting for you to list him again why the goods cost exactly how much you want for it.
Yes, there is such a separate category of buyers. Many people do not like them, but these people help the sellers to understand the weaknesses of their business. They are a certain challenge that needs to be taken, and the barrier that needs to be circumvented. At the same time, these clients themselves are divided into:
When communicating with such people, the main thing is not to succumb to provocations. Observe calm and confidence. Roughness means the lack of other arguments, and when a person will understand that you do not pier on the cries and accusations, he will retreat himself. And all his negative will remain with it. And perhaps, it is just emotions that you need to not interfere. If a person is dissatisfied with the price, the appearance of the goods - you agree with him, using speech turnover by type "Yes, you are definitely right, but let yourself clarify ...". And further, despite the emotions, try to help him.
Such a person is usually not confident in himself and in his choice. He is pursued by doubts that you need to level. Support it, expand, or on the contrary, narrow the list of options for purchase. It is doubly important to emphasize all the advantages of the goods. If a person wants to consult with his wife or bosses, offer your help in this matter.
The client wants to demonstrate that he knows your goods better than you yourself. Well, in this case can be played in his game. Show how you admire its competence, do not use sharp objections if it criticizes the goods, but only offer alternative arguments. Here the main thing is to find a compromise. A healthy discussion always benefits both parties.
To begin with, I will specify - any serious deal requires a personal meeting. Successful telephone conversations are only one of the stages of cooperation. But this stage is very important. Let's talk about him.
The client calls first
It already means that he has a question that needs to be solved. Man found your contacts, scored the room, waited for an answer. Here your task is to politely greet it, introduce myself to learn about the problem. This will give a charge defined trust when the client will understand that on the other end of the wire is also sitting a living person, and the robot manager. Do not cheat it expectations. But at the same time, let the opportunity to make sure your professionalism, because the caller is not always an expert in the field of goods or services for which he, in fact, called. Having learned about his preferences, clearly and concisely voiced them in your own words and allow the client with you to agree with you. And then make an offer and agree on the meeting.
The first call you
In this case, the priority task is to find out if a person has time to talk. If not, ask when you can call back, because at the moment a busy interlocutor, if you do not put the phone, it is unlikely to pay enough attention to your suggestion.
The rest of the communication script with the client looks standard:
Separate nuances are selected for each particular sphere.
If your product or service is designed for business representatives, not corporate clients, find out from the interlocutor who is authorized to respond to offers on the type of your type and contact this person. And then act on the rolled scheme: the definition of the problem is your solution to its solution - price issues - confirmation of interest. And use the necessary marketing moves - let's information about discounts and other favorable terms.
In practice, keeping such telephone negotiations is as follows (example):
- Good afternoon, my name is ..., I am a company representative ... we are selling stationery. Do you have time to conversate?
- Yes, I listen to you.
- Tell me, do you use form for printing tax documents?
- Yes, we use.
- That is, for you the purchase of such documents is relevant?
- Yes, right, what do you want to offer?
- Our company will be interested in cooperation with such blanks for you. We are ready to discuss individual pricing policies and terms of cooperation.
Further, the conversation will go by itself, if a person is really interested in your offer. In case of refusal, try to know his cause and offer an alternative for cooperation. Feel free to ask questions and place the interlocutor to feedback. Only so you can build a constructive dialogue.
Negotiations - in fact, this is the process of exchanging views between two and more people, which is carried out in order to achieve any specific result. By and large, negotiations are present in the life of every person, because We all somehow have to come from time to time with someone about something to negotiate. When admitting to work, the conclusion of an important agreement, meeting with potential business partners, selling goods or services to the client, Family Council, etc. etc. - All this negotiations.
But it is necessary to understand that negotiations, despite the fact that they are similar in their essence, almost always occur in different conditions, i.e. For example, the negotiations of two business partners correspond to some conditions, negotiations between subordinates and the leader - others, negotiations between the heads of the states - third, etc.
However, the negotiation process itself always consists of three fundamental stages:
Preparation of negotiations is an extremely important stage, because It is on it that the foundation of the entire upcoming process is laid. Each preparation element is of great importance and may affect the achievement of the tasks. Even if some one intermediate stage (one of the stages of preparation of negotiations) did not pay due attention, the preparation cannot be considered effectively.
Preparation of negotiations consists of:
The stage of determining negotiations is characteristic of the fact that it implies the identification of the set of all sorts of approaches and / or procedures of negotiations and funds to be used to implement them. In addition, elements are determined with the ability to help solve the current problem, such as, for example, court, arbitration, mediators, etc. Means of negotiations are determined by all participants in the process, based on their own and / or general considerations.
Read more:You must understand what means you need the result can be achieved: In addition to determining the strategy of negotiations (we will talk about this in the next lesson), it can be any auxiliary materials, equipment, etc. Plus, additional specialists are often involved, for example, statists, professionals in a particular area, consultants, judges, etc.
Read more:The name of this intermediate stage speaks for itself. An independent representative (or representative of one party) must contact representatives of the opponents (or by the representative of the other Party) to find out whether the parties are ready to negotiate, as planning to solve the issues that have issued questions, determine the conditions for negotiating, and also decide on Will participants raise additional interested parties / organizations, and that they will be for persons / organizations.
The presented stage of negotiation preparation suggests:
Read more:At the stage of preparation of negotiations, it is required to collect all possible data on who will be negotiated with which interested persons / organizations can or will take part in them. It is very important to collect an exhaustive amount of data so that in the process of negotiations there are no unforeseen situations and confusion. Among other things, the effectiveness and the result of the negotiations are greatly dependent on whether the parties understand each other's demand, as well as their own.
The presented stage of negotiation preparation suggests:
Read more:Undoubtedly, it is not possible to plan everything, but you can negotiations. This includes, again, the definition of a strategy that will allow (based on the information collected about opponent / opponents), tactical nuances, allowing if necessary, to correct the strategy, possible issues that will be raised, and the definition of such moments as the location of the negotiations, the exact number of participants, the beginning and end of the negotiations and T .d., i.e. All organic nuances. As a result, you should form an approximate picture of the upcoming event.
The presented stage of negotiation preparation suggests:
Read more:The most effective negotiations are always held in a friendly atmosphere, when all participants are ready to meet each other, listen to opposite opinions, take into account other people's desires and needs, etc. It is for this purpose that psychological training is required (often through the involvement of specialists in this field), to create comfortable conditions for conducting negotiating activities, attract third-party specialists who, firstly, can establish that all the conditions of negotiations are legal and observed, and The second will regulate the negotiation process, not allowing violation by the participants of the established rules.
The second stage of negotiations is the most important thing. There is a direct interaction of participants in the negotiation process. As in the above case, all elements of the negotiation phase play a big role. The scheme proposed below is taken to be the most optimal, due to which the intermediate stages should not be changed in places.
So, the second stage consists of:
Read more:At the initial stage, the responsible person must submit to those present by all participants in the negotiations, to submit a signal to the beginning of the process. Participants have the right to express their ideas on the topic of holding the negotiation process, voice their positions, make adjustments and additions. Taking into account this information and the negotiation process will be carried out in the future.
The presented stage of negotiation suggests:
Read more:Participants must decide among themselves that they are looking for a solution to the same problem, as well as understand the interests of each other. The tempo is set: additional questions are discussed, according to which the Parties have no definite opinion, the collection of additional information is taken through an active hearing, fixing information, drawing up lists of additional issues and from sounding.
The presented stage of negotiation suggests:
Read more:At this interim stage, the participants are delivered to the study of controversial issues of each party, clarify their details, ask each other additional questions, refine the interests and needs. All this is done to minimize misunderstanding in the negotiation process, simplify the search for the most suitable for all participants to solve the problem and achievement of the Agreement. Taking as the basis of the information obtained, the participants can not only understand the deep interests of each other, but also find new points of contact and creative options for further action.
The presented stage of negotiation suggests:
Read more:Based on all the data obtained at the previous stages, discussed all the details and subtleties of the main problem, the negotiation participants define several options for the terms of the agreement, initially without taking any of them as a basis and not focusing on any of them attention. If necessary, a summary of the needs of each party and criteria should be taken into account to achieve an agreement are formulated by uniform principles that all participants should be guided without exception. If some questions are not disassembled well, they are disassembled again (if necessary, complex issues are divided into simple). Thus, an array of options for solving the problem, from which one will subsequently selected, which will satisfy all conditions and will suit all participants in the negotiations (if, of course, we are not talking about harsh negotiations - we will talk about them in a separate chapter).
The step of reaching agreement is the result of everything that was mentioned above. At this stage, the participants in the negotiation process come to a specific agreement that satisfies their interests.
This stage also consists of several intermediate, or rather from:
Read more:The options for solving problems obtained during the previous stage are summarized, after which they are compared with the interests of each of the parties. These options are then investigated from the point of view of efficiency. Each of the options are given questions like: "Does this option satisfy the side of the A / side of B?" Is it "What does this option in the interests of the part of the A / side in?", "How effective is this option to solve the problem?" etc. Then, for each of the options, a brief summary is made.
The presented stage of reaching consent implies:
Read more:The most effective is the option of solving the problem and reaching an agreement, which mostly satisfies the interests of all parties. This option is selected from the total array. If it has the disadvantages that require refinement, it is based on a new version, such drawbacks are excluding (this can be implemented by , focus groups, etc.). As soon as the final version is ready, the parties (or responsible persons) proceed to the development of the procedure for execution of the main agreement: its form is determined, the procedure for concluding, the list of persons involved for this / organizations (if required), etc.
The presented stage of reaching consent implies:
Read more:The result of all the above-mentioned basic and intermediate stages should be achieving the parties to formal consent. Participants in the negotiations verbally or documented (including with the involvement of relevant specialists) conclude an agreement, distribute rights and obligations, establish the deadlines for the fulfillment of obligations assumed (all this can be decorated in the form of special questionnaires, check-sheets, etc.) , discusses additional issues, make up a plan to implement the intended tasks, etc. In addition, participants should somehow determine the procedure for punishments (fines or other forms) for non-fulfillment of one parties (by both parties) commitments or violation of the terms of the agreement.
These are inherently the main stages of the negotiation process.
As we mentioned, in order to maximize the probability of achieving success in negotiations, it is necessary to try to follow the algorithm considered by us, not excluding and without changing its stages. Of course, you have the full right to make your additions and adjustments, because One negotiations will never be completely identical to others, and therefore will possess their own specifics and uniqueness. Saying somewhat differently, the result you plan through negotiations to achieve, requires an exclusive approach expressed not only in the skillful operating facts, arguments and available information, but also in application.
And in conclusion of the first lesson, we would like to give you some more recommendations - to introduce you to some rules for doing effective negotiations and some rules for the belief of partners in negotiations.
These several negotiation rules will allow you to avoid the most common mistakes (in more detail about errors we will talk in the sixth lesson) and negotiate the most optimally and comfortable for each of the parties.
To your negotiations have always been effective, follow the following recommendations:
These are just some rules for doing effective negotiations. In the process of studying this course, you will definitely get acquainted with others.
Several rules of persuasion, about which we will tell you now, will be able to serve you a good service in any situations when you need to convince the partner in its rightness or the weight of your arguments.
To be the most convincing in the negotiation process, take the following recommendations to weapons:
Naturally, these rules contributing to the conviction of people are not in their own way. In fact, this topic is very extensive, and many of all sorts of beliefs are devoted to various methods of conviction, because of which, in addition to the submitted course, we recommend that you familiarize yourself with our articles on the topic and, as well as with the book of Robert Dilts ".
In our next lesson, we will talk about the negotiation strategies, as well as about the ethics of the negotiation process, the global conditions of negotiation and some other equally important things relating to the negotiations.
If you want to test your knowledge on the subject of this lesson, you can pass a small test consisting of several questions. In each question, only 1 option can be correct. After choosing one of the options, the system automatically moves to the next question. The points you receive affect the correctness of your answers and spent time spent. Please note that questions every time are different, and the options are mixed.